I've always been the kind of person who hates being left in the dark. I hate when someone is keeping secrects from me. Unfortunately (for those who are hiding it) I have an uncanny way of somehow finding it out. Sooner or later. I'm sneaky that way... haha.
But I love surprises... only the good kind though. I love knowing that someone cared enough about me to plan a surprise, something I might like. But that is entirely a different matter.
I believe that sometimes being left in the dark is better. Not for petty things like who's dating who... etc etc. If someone is hiding that he/she knows you can do better with not knowing about, then I think that it should be kept that way.
For me, at such a situation its a matter of trust. Do I trust the person enough to think that they know what I'd like to know/not know? Because honestly I am the one who has the right to decide what's good or bad for me. But for big decisions one can't ever tell.
Afterall you can't 'unknow' something once you know it. You can't go back and edit, cut or delete. Sad, but true.
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